December 10. Today, the reversed card "Queen of Wands" fell out for you
the reversed card "Queen of Wands"
The reversed Queen of Wands is the embodiment of insecurity, jealousy, and attention-seeking. Applied to your current falling out, it seems that the card sees a power struggle going on between you, one rooted in a lack of self-worth. One or even both of you are not shining authentically. This inevitably leads to envy and a desperate fight to be the center of attention. This is not some surface-level struggle. This is one person’s fire being constantly smothered by the other.
The reversed Queen of Wands in love sees a battle for the spotlight being fought. One partner can be seen acting overly dramatic to elicit a reaction, while the other one simply shuts down, withdrawing all their passion. “Instead of inspiring each other's confidence, you try to overshadow them,” the reversed queen scolds you. “Your relationship needs mutual admiration!”
As a feeling, the reversed Queen of Wands is that uncomfortable heat of jealousy or enthusiasm you don’t feel. You feel your confidence crumbling; that is why you are forced to act out in a petty way to make yourself seen. It’s like you are standing backstage, seeing your partner receiving an ovation, all while your spirit is being crushed.
Don’t worry, the reversed Queen of Wands is happy to offer you advice. “Quit this performance,” she orders you. “Turn inward to reignite your own authentic spark!” So do it - work on your confidence. Then, learn to celebrate your partner’s wins without comparing them to your own. “Don’t try to be the brightest in the room,” the Queen urges. “Instead, build a relationship where you two can burn side-by-side.”
